The Fingerman Method

imagine a word or see something
->first word that pops in your mind

associate best scenario
associate worse case scenario

->repeat

in multi langual cities do it for 1 word at a time

take calculated risks
find out what kind of girl I’m gaming and what works for that

girl
take the risk when there’s nothing else
4 phases
comfort building kino (quick easy, someting you can do to

guys)
-high fives, fish pumps, touching elbow,
classical conditionning touch (associate my touch with

positive emotions, touch on high points)
operant conditionning touch (if she does something I like or

qualify herself I’m gonna touch her)
arousal

comfort building
—————-
High 5s
Handshakes
Arm tap
Fist bump/The “rock”
back of hand to stomach
touching elbow with left hand while handshaking
squeeze shoulder
grab hand to look at ring more cloesly

classical conditionning
———————–
Ass slap
Pulling her in
Hands on waist (facing her)Putting her hands on your

shoulders (facing her)
Arm around her waist (from side)
Dancing
Walking promenade style (arm in arm)
Hair pull (from roots at back of the neck)
sideways hug
full hug
nudge with elbow
pick her up (either straight up or over shoulder)
have her show you her punch (she punches into your hand)
feel her muscle
play hand slaps
play wrestle
tickle her
rub your butt against hers (while dancing or starting a

dance)

OPERANT CONDITIONING
Flirty

Ass slap
Pulling her in
Hands on waist (facing her)
Putting her hands on your shoulders (facing her)
Arm around her waist (from side)
Dancing
Walking promenade style (arm in arm)
Hair pull (from roots at back of the neck)

transition from topic to topic
justify everything, ground everything

drunk girl = kino a lot

be very persistant. physically do not let her leave.

if girl tries to leavem physically grab her and keep her from leaving.

sober girl or quieter bar. Dont kino as much.

What to do when the girl is mad?

bait investing
qualifying on the fighting

She has to go from :

angry to challenging
to challenging to respecting
liking each other

What to do when other guys are in the  set

frame them as being creepy or needy
eye coding

ex:
”
this guys is hitting on every girl in here this is weird.
whatdo you mean
I saw him hitting on those other girls before
”
“do you know this guy? Do you like this guy?”

“i was here with a female friend of mine and he was hitting on her he’s really aggressive”

What to do when the friend is cockblocking you AND/or she has another guy

get target isolated
get target to cockblock the guy of the friend she is trying to hook up with.
if the friend is too mean, focus on your girl and try to make her feel like her friend is being a social violator, etc. Frame her friends as rude and idiots.

What to do when sets don’t stay in the same place for long?

work the room, be the ADD guy, open sets for 10 seconds and then leave and then reopen again and again.

When the girl is giving you a blowout, talk about annecdotes from your life that is relevant to the previous topic of conversation

I dont care how long you’ve been doing pick up or how many girls you’ve fucked. IMO to have good game means to be an expert at all these skills:

number 1

being able to open and get a laugh within 2 sentences at least 80% of the time for every situation you occur when u go out with my list of openers in vegas and saying “it was suposed to be a joke, now youre making me feel like Im really not funny”

you need to be able to get a laugh in under 20 secs in ALL the situation you encouter except walking sets

number 2

jump on the girl that is showing you the most attention, befriend her (means to get 1 laugh, introduce yourself, 1 other laugh, high five, 1 other laugh until you have enough complience to get 1 laugh and use that laugh for the complience test “introduce me to your friends”

then make every one of her friends laugh enough to get 2-3 complience test out of everyone of them

now your whole set is befriended, this takes under 5 mins, you befriend them as fast as you can, if the girls are bitches, will take longer

number 3

transition to your target, and keep pumping her state by being funny and buildinng complience everytime you get a laugh, if you havent locked in yet because of the bad logistics, build enough complience to change the logostics and lock in

so number 3 in short is, transition, build complience, lock in if you havent done it yet

number 4 is

now you are locked in, keep building complience with your target, find out some quick logistics about what the group is doing in the immediate future, think of an isolation or moving the whole set plan if its a 2 set, if a 2 set, make sure the friend is entertained and befriended by you while you do your shit

if a 2 set, build enough complience from your girl first, then from the second girl to move them

if they are sitting that means getting them to stand up first

then you can pull them to a bar to sit down with you or to another location to get a drink or somewhere where you can find some hot guys to throw at the friend if your wing isnt getting along with the girl

if a bigger group and you’re already in a long term location like a bar, you do not need to bounce them, you only need to islolate your target, which means you only build complience from your target until you can slightly isolate

then you keep building complience till you can fully isolate

if its a big club, you go in another ocrner

where you can sit down

or have a deep connection convo

and seduce her

if its a small bar

aka elbow room

I would isolate outside

to go smoke

then you stay outside

then you isolate to another bar

aka casanova

walking distance

or a park

or something cool

any excuse to isolate even further away

at this point you should have enough commplience

and the girl should be fucking into you

even if you havent done any comfort

so you sit down

so once you get perfect at number 1 to 4

number 5 is

make sure that you are able to state pump with worse case senario humor and best case senario humor

you need to be able to run sets

with either

entire sets

where the girl has massive state pumps

from only best case senario humor

and worse case senario humor

best case senario state pump

girl: “I am from LA”
you: “oh you so drink margaritas with snoop dog on the beach”
girl “haha” ->state pumped ->you ask for complience (shake hands, introduce me to your friends, high five, spin ,etc)

worse case senario

girl: “I am from LA”
you: “oh that’s cool I hate people from LA”
girl: “haha” or “why” ->state pumped ->you ask for complience

number 6 is find an opener that works for guys in any situation you will need when you go out, and be able to state pump guys just like you state pump women

using best case senario

List of situational openers that are tested and never get blown out

Recording yourself and making someone more advanced listen to your sets is one of the best ways to improve your game. Here’s what you’re gonna need:

mic:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B000815CF4/ref=asc_df_B000815CF41908034?smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER&tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=asn&creative=395093&creativeASIN=B000815CF4

recorder
http://www.amazon.com/Sony-ICD-UX200-Digital-Recorder-Microphone/dp/B00387E5BW/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1329788844&sr=8-1

Make sure you place the mic near your chest and that you set up the option “noise cancel” on the recorder.

This is the exact setup I have and it works even in the loudest clubs in Las Vegas.

Being able to make the girl laugh whenever you want is invaluable when trying to pick up girls. It’s like a button you push when you need a desired result. Mostly used when you want to hook the girl in the first place, when you want to build complience or simply to be a high value person in any situation (because fun = value!).

Comedy is both a science and and art because while no one has the exact same sense of humor and comes up with the same jokes, the structure of a joke and or humor are always the same. It’s

Set up (with an assumption)
and
Punch line (destroys the most common assumption)

Example from one of the book:

Anyway learning how to be funny is easy but it takes time and dedication, and you never stop improving. I used to have a really weird sense of humor that no one understood but me, but I read a bunch of books about comedy and watched a lot of stand up comedy and practiced and lot, and now with a little bit momentum I can say funny and playful things on command.

Here’s your homework if you want to become funny:

1. Read the 2 books “Melvin Helitzer – Comedy writing secrets” and “Greg Dean – Step By Step To Stand Up Comedy” (both unfortuantely are available to download by torrents, shame on you for stealing peoples work!).
2. Watch something like 50-100 hours of stand up comedy after you read the books and understand how the jokes are created (Netflix has a lot of it).
3. Notice funny people around you and funny things people say, and understand how it was created after you read the books.
4. Go out for 1 month or more and ONLY try to be funny. If you’re funny enough, girls will want to spend the whole night with you and laugh with you. If you can do that consistently then you are funny enough to go to the next level. (Those girls won’t have sex with you if all you do is being funny so be prepared for that)

Open, (befriend the group/playful vibing with everyone), transition to the girl you like, (build complience/lock in/validate), isolate, deep rapport, make out, (get number/take her home)

Leave a comment if you need clarification on any of those points