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How to record yourself while picking up chicks (which mic and recorder to use)

Recording yourself and making someone more advanced listen to your sets is one of the best ways to improve your game. Here’s what you’re gonna need: mic: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B000815CF4/ref=asc_df_B000815CF41908034?smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER&tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=asn&creative=395093&creativeASIN=B000815CF4 recorder http://www.amazon.com/Sony-ICD-UX200-Digital-Recorder-Microphone/dp/B00387E5BW/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1329788844&sr=8-1 Make sure you place the mic near your chest and … Continue reading

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How to learn to become funny to pick up girls

Being able to make the girl laugh whenever you want is invaluable when trying to pick up girls. It’s like a button you push when you need a desired result. Mostly used when you want to hook the girl in … Continue reading

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how I see game lately:

Open, (befriend the group/playful vibing with everyone), transition to the girl you like, (build complience/lock in/validate), isolate, deep rapport, make out, (get number/take her home) Leave a comment if you need clarification on any of those points

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Questions are stronger than statements

They say in the community not to ask questions, to make statements. It is true that it will be better to say “You look like you’re from California” instead of saying “Are you from California?”. It is also true that … Continue reading

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How to make friends and long term relationships: commonalities

There’s always a reason for us to hang out with people. We don’t hang out with people that don’t add value to our life. This is what a lot of puas reffer to as attraction, the value that the girl … Continue reading

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How to Qualify a Girl after an Indirect or Group Opener

A thing that I’ve been finding very effective is when you open a group and you feel the girls are attracted enough, you want to throw a huge qualifier to the girl you like based on something generic like her … Continue reading

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How to Do Push Pull

French being my first language, I always struggled with the subtleties of the English language and when I would try teasing the girl it would always come off as an insult. Also never having anyone to tease growing up even … Continue reading

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The Truth about Looks and Game

Let’s make something clear, in a loud bar or club, you can only open the girl cause it’s too loud. Ignore the latest part about group dynamics, that only works in quiet areas like smoking, patios, etc. I try to … Continue reading

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About “State”

To me the natural state of mind would be when you wake up in the morning. It also includes when you’re hungry, tried, sad, happy, whatever. Your state of mind is your state of mind. It doesn’t actually change. It’s … Continue reading

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How to Be a Good Wingman

1. Always stay until 4 am or at least until your wings want to leave. Always be the last one staying. 2. Always say “yes!” to whatever venue you’re going, set to open or crazy stuff to do. Be down … Continue reading

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