Author Archives: Fingerman

Questions are stronger than statements

They say in the community not to ask questions, to make statements. It is true that it will be better to say “You look like you’re from California” instead of saying “Are you from California?”. It is also true that … Continue reading

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How to make friends and long term relationships: commonalities

There’s always a reason for us to hang out with people. We don’t hang out with people that don’t add value to our life. This is what a lot of puas reffer to as attraction, the value that the girl … Continue reading

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How to Qualify a Girl after an Indirect or Group Opener

A thing that I’ve been finding very effective is when you open a group and you feel the girls are attracted enough, you want to throw a huge qualifier to the girl you like based on something generic like her … Continue reading

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How to Do Push Pull

French being my first language, I always struggled with the subtleties of the English language and when I would try teasing the girl it would always come off as an insult. Also never having anyone to tease growing up even … Continue reading

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The Truth about Looks and Game

Let’s make something clear, in a loud bar or club, you can only open the girl cause it’s too loud. Ignore the latest part about group dynamics, that only works in quiet areas like smoking, patios, etc. I try to … Continue reading

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About “State”

To me the natural state of mind would be when you wake up in the morning. It also includes when you’re hungry, tried, sad, happy, whatever. Your state of mind is your state of mind. It doesn’t actually change. It’s … Continue reading

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How to Be a Good Wingman

1. Always stay until 4 am or at least until your wings want to leave. Always be the last one staying. 2. Always say “yes!” to whatever venue you’re going, set to open or crazy stuff to do. Be down … Continue reading

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Riding the Emotionnal Wave

I think almost everyone has something weird or creepy or not calibrated about them when they are picking up chicks. And I think if you really want to be successful at this you need to be able to see it. … Continue reading

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5 Books That Will Improve Your Game

In this order: 1. A new earth -> Talks about being in the moment, letting go of the past and problems. 2. Mastery -> Talks about plateaus while learning a skill, and why you should embrace them. 3. Awaken the … Continue reading

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What Would I Do Right Now if I Was a Complete Loser

You guys are fucking losers. Its time for a change. If you don’t know me, I’m a cool ass motherfucker. I fuck tons of girls, I have money working for me (I don’t work), I have awesome friends, I’m pretty … Continue reading

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