The Truth about Looks and Game

Let’s make something clear, in a loud bar or club, you can only open the girl cause it’s too loud. Ignore the latest part about group dynamics, that only works in quiet areas like smoking, patios, etc. I try to only go to those kind of places nowadays.

If you approach a girl that is worse looking or perceives you as better looking, and you approach with what PUAs call a direct opener, you will instantly have attraction. Being too funny, teasing too much, playing hard to get, “gaming”, whatever you call it “building attraction” will get you blown out. Instead, enter the interaction in comfort/vibing mode. After that, if you can get a good enough connection and escalate you will pull the girl.
The only problem is that doing that you alienate the friends who will cockblock a big percentage of the time. The reason is they don’t know you. They hate you. They must cockblock. It’s like as soon as they see you, they MUST cockblock. No matter how fucking cool you are, the seed is already planted in their mind that they must cockblock.
Maybe 1 every 5 times the friends will be open to their friend getting fucked, or they will be too shy to cockblock, or they will see that the girl likes you soooo much that they won’t do anything. Sometimes the girl actually likes you so much that she tells the friend to fuck off.

That seems like a lot of luck involved in the process and it’s up to you if you want to reach the next level or you want to keep fucking girls that are less attractive than you (or perceived attraction) and get cockblocked all the time; making getting laid like rolling a dice.

If you are lucky enough to find a better looking girl than you that you can approach without interacting with the friends and getting cockblocked instantly, it is not rare that you can get a short term attraction from her just by approaching with good tonality, bodylanguage, and maybe a funny line or just a “Hi, I’m Fingerman”.
You will need to keep up this attraction throughout the pickup every few minutes otherwise it will go away and the girl will get bored. You can do that with a simple push pull line everyonce in a while such as “I would love to take you to my country… but I would never introduce you to my parents.” See end of the post for a list of push pull lines.
When opening direct you again automatically starts the interaction in comfort/vibing but you will need to sparkle attraction and qualify every few minutes. Saying small qualifying questions like “You look like you do something creative” will test the water to see how attracted she is at the moment.
To understand this you must have a lot of emotional intelligence and be able to read if a girl is attracted, and how she feels on a moment to moment basis. If you cannot, keep going out, observing people, trying to read and understand what’s going on. Don’t go berserk and blind and throw shit at the wall. Try to understand what’s going on or you will never learn and you will be blind to social interactions for the rest of your life.

If you approach a group with something that engages the whole group such as “I need a female opinion, can you wear jeans do a wedding”, you will not get attraction from that, but it will open 90% of the sets. Even massive bitches that are not attracted to you at all will answer that question. Even dudes will answer that question.
I try to include everyone or as many people as a can. Then you spot the girl you like and you use push pull lines on her but you speak to the group “Look at her she’s the mean one, she’s judging me right now. I bet that’s what she does in the club she just sits in a dark corner and judges everyone. I’m sure she’s just waiting for me to say “about” so that she can make fun of my Canadian accent. Is she always like that?”. Wait to see if you get any/enough IOIS and then test the water with a small qualification hoop like you switch to the girl you like and you say “You look like you do something creative”. See what she gives you and if you need to build more attraction.
Every girl has a different way of showing attraction so test the water before you go overkill with the attraction. You can just chill there and wait to see what they do, no need to go crazy and make them fucking cry in laughter. A lot of the time the girl won’t show she’s attracted but she will be enough to qualify herself to you.
If you open the group instead of just her, you will need to qualify before you switch to comfort/vibing because otherwise it seems weird. Qualification is kind of like the bridge between dancing monkey and cool man that she’s getting to know. If you see the group getting angry or bored or something just switched back to group conversation like “You guys won’t believe what she just told me, she’s crazy, your friend is crazy, why do you guys even hang out with her”. Isolate after 5-10 minutes “I want to introduce you to my friends”.
Since you planted the seed that you are making her attracted to you by teasing her, you will need to sparkle some push pull throughout the pick up. I like to do it at the same time that I escalate “I want to sleep with you… but I would never introduce you to my parents”. Same with qualifying, you need to keep qualifying everyonce in a while as you guys get to know each other and vibe.

Make out with her. Take her home. Be nice to the female and male friends. Talk to them. Be their bro. Don’t worry if they are being massive cockblocks, if you’re nice with them and get to know them you probably will have your chance with your girl later. If not, well they would have cockblocked anyway. Re engage your chick with random opinion openers or push pull lines when you can and try to isolate.
Make out with her. Take her home. If logistics suck take her number if she is SUPER hot. Don’t waste your time with fatties.

Never text. Call her a few times a week and talk for 20 minutes. Wait for her to ask you out.

*Comfort/vibing just means getting to know each other like normal people.
*Qualifying means asking questions or making statements that make her feel good about herself and that makes her feel special and that there’s a reason for you to choose her. “You look like you do something creative” “What did you want to be when you were a kid”.

Push pull lines

You’re either the coolest person I ever met… or you’re just strange, I don’t know yet.
I want to take you to my country… but I would never introduce you to my parents.
You’re the meanest girl in your group.
Look at how she’s looking at me, she’s so judgmental. I bet she’s the meanest girl in the group.
You have a cute girls face… but your conduct is evil.

Small Hoop Qualifying

You look like you do something creative
You look like you travel a lot
You look like you’re someone with a lot of emotional intelligence.

All those lines can be used 1on1 to your target or speaking to the group, about your target. Just use them a few times and then your brain will start making them up.

I think people get very confused with game because different places have different rules like loud places, dark places, places where friends are more likely to cockblock, places with lots of guys, places where people are drunk, etc. and they don’t know when to use group opening and direct opening.

I think people also get confused because they get advice from good looking people, and bad looking people, people that fuck ugly chicks, people that fuck hot chicks. They also get confused because they get advice from people who go out every day and fuck 1 girl a week. They think they are pimp but think about it if you talk to 200 girls to fuck 1, can you say whatever you want? Are you enough? Fuck yeah you are enough.

If I was going to teach a course on how to fuck fatties I would make it different than how to fuck hot girls. If I was going to teach a really good looking man, an average man, and an ugly man I would also make it different. If I was going to teach going to a loud dark club or going to a nice outside patio I would also make it different.